There are plenty of reasons for why you aren’t part of an awesome twosome just yet. But what if you’ve been hurting your chances at love all along? Here are some of the ways you might be doing yourself more harm than good:
You keep comparing everyone to a past relationship
If you haven’t resolved your feelings from your last relationship, it could put you and any of your potential partners at a disadvantage. Hiring the best matchmaker in town won’t help if you can’t see past the past. Strive to be emotionally healthy. Move on.
You’re addicted to finding love
That’s one of the worst mistakes you could make, says Reader’s Digest. If you’re addicted to love, you might be too fixated on what the right love life looks like and miss out on all the fun of discovering the many ways love is unique for everyone.
You’re not getting help
If you already know you have a problem, ask for help. Hiring a matchmaker is one of the best ways you could meet people in Boston. From knowing where the best dating spots are to providing you with a filtered match list, you won’t have to worry about spending too much time and effort on finding and filtering potential dates out. Your matchmaker will happily do that for you.
Worst of all… you’re obnoxious and rude!
A good matchmaker is honest and will find a way to point out any personality or character flaws you might have that could be compromising your chances at landing a good match. So if you don’t have any idea why your matches are failing, asking assistance from a pro wouldn’t hurt.
Love isn’t always about meeting the right person but being the right person. So if you think you need help to determine what you’re doing wrong, ask your matchmaker for help.